We always catch ourselves thinking, ‘Where have I gone wrong?’, ‘If I did this one thing differently, the outcome would have been better’, ‘It’s all my fault and my flaws’, ‘I should have said this elseways’…. I …me …myself …my …
Let’s start reminding ourselves daily that all our relationships, conversations, social interactions involve OTHER PEOPLE (who have their own stories, struggles and perceptions) and not only ourselves. Hence, the end results are not based solely on our choices, words and actions.
We can only stress and take care of one thing – OUR PART and be in charge of our believes, reflections and actions.
DO NOT FORGET – in this game called life, you are not alone. Everyone has his/her role, and even if you play your part outstandingly, the results can be not as anticipated.
Put your best 50% in everything – family, love, work, friendship, your own mental and physical state – soul & spirit, and let the rest of 50% unleash itself.
In case the outcome is not as satisfactory as you imagined, at least you know that you did your best.
Move on, try your chances elsewhere and put your best performance you possibly can.